Marriage is a union, and that’s a fact. You two become one flesh and live together as husband and wife.Remember you no longer on your own. You’re now in an institution being managed by two people and you belong to each other. You guys are now the closest of friends and so you make and agree on decisions together. You make decisions as to what to eat, how to spend money, the number of children you gonna have, where to live, when and how to make love and a whole lot. Until children begin to flow in, everything depends on you two. Family members might come in along the way, but believe you me, they are just passers by. They may share experiences, guide you in certain situations, or even help in making decisions but mind you, they’re all meant to check/influence you two and not them. As a result, be careful whom you seek advice from, the decisions you make, the kind of words you use for each other. Open up, share your thoughts and ideas, move together, eat together, take a stroll/walk together and even share your household chores.These will spice up your marriage and make it romantic as well.
Revamping your soul
This post is in response to the several
questions about sex during menstruation. You will find these notes helpful.
•It is also very common for women to have
sexual desires during that time of the month
due to shoot in levels of hormones.
• Some women report that sex causes
menstruation to end sooner than usual. This is probably due to muscle spasms from orgasm, allowing menstrual blood to flow out quickly.
• A woman can get pregnant from having sex during her menses. This is likely if ovulation closely follows the end of menstruation.
• There’s also a higher risk of passing on sexually-transmitted infections from both partners. Use a condom!
• Sex can ease the discomfort and cramps associated with the period. Orgasmic contractions of the uterus offer a soothing internal massage. Natural painkillers calld endorphins are released to reduce cramps, depressions etc.
• Talk to your partner about sex during that time of the month. The decision to engage in it is solely dependent on how comfortable it is with both partners.
Dr. Manfred Kumah
Revamping your soul
Can I at least have a male friend who is very honest, open , reliable and close with no strings attached? A guy who can serve as a brother, mentor friend and I mean it, just a friend who shares same ideas, thoughts and interests at same time? Someone I can speak to anytime need arises, chat with, count on or approach for advises without expecting anything in return from me?
I’ve come to realize one thing; I meet guys and I meet lots of them. Sometimes I come across guys who seem to be caring, open, and share similar interests. some of them fit perfectly well as mentors I could approach in my entrepreneurial endeavours but in the end you come to realize after all the commitment you put in, he was looking for something. What’s it he’s looking for? Either seeking to date you or take you to bed.
Why should this be so?
Very often I find myself committing to some of these “friendships”, telling myself : ‘I’ve met a friend or a mentor now’. BUT NOPE!! He’s seeking to achieve his own interests; which shouldn’t be the case.
Could someone at least tell me why?
Am so much confounded.